@DanDRX: based on that vacation at Ember Island, and a few of the novels...that's not entirely true...she's the female boss type that tends turn off men....but at the same time wants a man...or more specifically wants dick....you be surprised on how many of these "boss babes" deep down want to be dominated my a dominant man....yet are to masculine themselves to get to that type of relationship...not long term at least.